Wednesday, July 13, 2016

Published Wednesday, July 13, 2016 by with 0 comment

《别了,Malikai》


当老宝说:After 3 long years long in this marvelous project ... It comes to an end of the journey ... Start to feel loneliness ... Miss the days of facing obstacles and challenges! Good bye !
感触良多。
打从什么都没有的时候,老宝常常为着它奔波劳碌,蓝女人毅然决定放下属于自己的宝塔。决定为慢飞宝贝护航。

原来觉得那是一个很艰难的抉择,像是举棋不定的日复一日,月复一月,年复一年。。。 老板作出种种的善意安排,提供种种的方便,展现蓝女人未来职业的发展, 蓝女人感激遇上好老板,最终还是在这个时候,选择了撤退。

那个时候感觉像是把多年幸苦经营建立的宝塔一手给踹了下来那样。偶尔还会质疑自己的决定,缅怀在宝塔中享受的风光美景。

不知不觉,三年就这样混了过去

老宝虽然觉得吃力与偶尔很压力,不时有诸多阻扰与不顺利,甚至想退缩的时候,蓝女人问:需不需要我从出江湖啊? 老宝最终还是克服千千难关,突破重围。

蓝女人原以为,这样做虽然谈不上为慢飞宝贝牺牲了些些什么,可是原本生活可以更美好一些。第一年,是蛮吃力吃苦的。备课夜夜越夜,晚晚凌晨两三点备课,第二天带孩子,家务事,忙忙碌碌。厨房里炒菜,煎鱼,锅里的食油婆娑得让蓝女人觉得好辛酸。
蓝女人甚至花了好好些时间来了解复印机是怎么一回事。在办公室里都从来没有这么认真的来看待这样东西。必要时吩咐两下,东西就美美的摆在面前。心酸的自嘲愚弄一番。
日子还是晃了过去。
回首来时路,与其说蓝女人为慢飞宝贝护航而牺牲。不如说慢飞宝贝为蓝女人启航。快活的日子不知时日过,就这样三年了。

蓝女人不再需要按时起床,睡到自然醒曾几何时是遥不可及的梦想,现在,蓝女人是名副其实的“睡到自然”。 就算是清早宝贝要去补习班也会自己起来梳洗,自备早餐,打理了再唤醒妈妈她要出门去。
曾经呼喊,吹赶宝贝快点,甚至大呼小叫。现在虽然还是要吹赶,却还能出门前赏赏门前的一蛙菜才出门。
宝贝慢飞不慢飞蓝女人不知道,反而常常给蓝女人出其不意的惊喜。偶尔拉首很棒的歌曲给蓝女人听。偶尔写写天马行空的故事和一家人分享。偶尔献上最亲爱的祝福小卡片。偶尔来个让人啼笑皆非的动作让人措手不及, 偶尔糊涂得让人头皮发痒。偶尔。。。偶尔。。。就这样偶尔偶尔的长大了。
蓝女人说走就走,一拖二 cuti cuti Malaysia 也好。不然自己一个人逍遥国外游也好,老宝不曾多说一句,硕起大拇指!反而蓝女人不想出门太久怕会牵挂宝贝们。
真的,快乐不知时日过。三年就这样过去了。当老宝说Malikai 被拖走了,蓝女人的脑袋像被敲了一下。 失落之余,要感谢它给我们一家温饱。也感谢它让蓝女人没有后顾之忧的情况之下依然退下。这也意味着, 这一章即已结束, 老宝常常担心接下来的日子是否还可以明媚如昔呢?
蓝女人总是说,船到桥头自然直。 蓝女人原以为关了一扇门,前路暗然,从来没有想到上天为蓝女人开了一户窗,明媚动人的光景。
蓝女人一点也说不上牺牲!反观,感谢慢飞宝贝带来一切生活的乐章。感谢老宝紧牙根任我行!
Malikai 万岁!

图片来源:网路
Read More
      edit

Tuesday, July 12, 2016

Published Tuesday, July 12, 2016 by with 0 comment

《Ladies' Talk》


昨天,蓝女人在客厅小歇,小宝问: Mummy, 为什么姐姐吃饭这么慢?
妈妈:Ya, why huh? Jie?
大宝: I got a big trouble.
蓝女人立马坐直:What big problem you have?
小宝:friend bit you?
大宝:No.
小宝:teacher scolded you?
大宝:No.
妈妈:then?
大宝:my classmate Alicia keep want to occupy Rxxx (a boy's name)
妈妈:then?
大宝:already long time she like that.
妈妈:so how?
大宝:I don't know...
妈妈:Mei Mei, you got any idea how to solve Jie's problem?
小宝:hmm... Jie, you tell Alicia take turn la...
大宝:No... it won't work, she is very selfish. Her eyes keep stick with Rxxx even if they are not together.
小宝:hmm... Jie, your problem is just like my problem. Melissa also same, she always, always want sit with John. I don't like it too!
大宝:so how?
小宝:I don't know.
妈妈:Go friend with others. When Alicia get bored then she will go to other friends, then you can friend him back.
--------------------------------------------------
今晚, 妈妈:Jie, why so slow again?
大宝:Alicia still occupying Rxxx
妈妈:Then you just friend with others.
大宝:Ya, I told Rxxx my plan already, we pretend not friend already...
还真不懂如何反应!这叫青出于蓝吗?
Read More
      edit

Sunday, July 10, 2016

Published Sunday, July 10, 2016 by with 0 comment

作者介绍

蓝女人


蓝女人 这号人物本来很宅,自觉渺小,也没有很大的壮志,恒心也不能永恒。

一直都很想继续写部落,爬格子, 就是没有这把恒心。 就算是兴趣 也需要坚持才可以持久,所以一直都搁着。

爬格子,从单身写写当下的情绪,爬着爬着,写写 两性关系,又断断续续的爬着,写写育儿小品。。。随着年龄的增长,前些日子,起了歹意,想写慢活。

终于,手痒。又到处爬。不想放弃多年前的“蓝女人”,所以,过着慢活的女人,最终,又回到当初敲键盘的日子。







Read More
      edit
Published Sunday, July 10, 2016 by with 0 comment

部落简介


万一,你来到 《慢活 蓝女人》 的部落, 想通知你一声,一些链接(Link)都还没有处理好。 可是蓝女人没有很急着处理。所以所有不便之处多多包涵。蓝女人还是很欢迎你进来浏览。

在这里,做个简单的介绍。

《慢活 蓝女人》

蓝女人部落格 原自于2010年, 断断续续,醒来沉睡,死去又活来,也好多个年头了。 只是换一个平台。原来的部落格,没有意识中断,只是继续的沉睡。。。

原本蓝女人在2010年就拥有部落为《蓝女人》和《遇见小公主》,由于某些因素,蓝女人决定把这些部落给关了,把值得保留纪念的,蓝女人都从新粘贴在《慢活 蓝女人》


生活小品, 单纯的属于自己的空间,笔记蓝女人自己的生活,录下想记得的,想放纵的,或许是心情,或许是领悟,或许想念的,一刹那的感觉,一种品味, 好好的把喜欢的 都一一收藏。 蓝女人由高快度生活,转而慢活,也需要学习。


滴滴亲子,笔记属于孩子的成长,蓝女人之所以有扭慢速度的念头,也是从孩子身上开启。
与其呐喊孩子“快点”,不如放慢自己的脚步!




每当蓝女人听到友人说,“看到你的例子,我就觉得有希望的时候”, 蓝女人就懊悔自己没有积极尽力的记录宝贝的事。 所以把相关 “亞斯伯格自閉症” Asperger syndrome的文章归类为《寻回失去的翅膀》




那一年,开启《遇见小公主》是因为老宝贝出国公干,部落记录当下蓝女人与大宝以便老宝可以知道咱们的近况。写着写着。。。断断续续的日子翻了过去,记录变得不汤不水。现在回头看,还是百般滋味,还是要继续写下去,不写就记不起这些日子如何兜过去。。。继续不汤不水吧!


葱仔与我,那是蓝女人重回校园的一页。教书是蓝女人多年的愿望与嗜好,停下原来的工作,没想到就这样蓝女人开启了另一扇门。

SIMPLY ENGLISH,纯粹是蓝女人偶尔手痒,想写写abc的一块,也就与喜欢看abc的朋友一起分享这一块。






Read More
      edit

Tuesday, July 5, 2016

Published Tuesday, July 05, 2016 by with 0 comment

葱仔小聚


时光如流。再见,即是我的朋友我的老师。
(AUSMAT JAN 2015)

Read More
      edit

Saturday, July 2, 2016

Published Saturday, July 02, 2016 by with 0 comment

《毛毛虫》


这夜,说的故事:
Long long time ago, there was a girl, she loved to slot her finger in to her nose and mouth. She loves to eat sweets and ice-cream.
One day, she caught a flu. She couldn’t sleep well and kept coughing. She had an irritating throat, and she complained to her mother, “Mom, my throat is very itch!” Right after she was able to finish her sentence, she started to cough, “Whoop! Whoop! Whoop!” "Barking" badly and finally she cough out the phlegm.
Before her mother was able to ask her to spit out the phlegm. She swallowed it back, she said, “I am too tired to spit it out. Mom.” Her mom had nothing to say anymore and stepped out from her bedroom.
After a while, she felt her nose was very itchy. And it was getting more and more itchy, and she opened her mouth wide, “Ah… Ah… AH….. Choo!” She sneezed badly until the snivel gushed on her palm.
Suddenly something furry moving on her palm. It was a caterpillar!
The girl was too shocked and tried to shack her hand and flung away the caterpillar. But the phlegm was too sticky and the voice came from no way, “stop shaking! I am going to fall!”
The girl was abashed by the tiny voice, “who… who… are you? Where… where are you?”
“Hey, look at here, look at your palm. I am a caterpillar.”
“You can talk?” the girl asked.
“Yes! I am” said the caterpillar.
“But… but … since when you got into my nose?!”
“I am in your nose since you are getting flu. Me and thousand of my friends are trying very hard to help you.” explained the caterpillar.
“Help me?”, it sound so unbelievable by the little girl.
“Yes. We wiggle our body very very hard and our furry hair will make you cough!” exclaimed the caterpillar.
“Why you want to make me cough? I know, that’s why I can’t recover and my mom won’t let me go for swimming!”
“No! We make you cough so that your phlegm can come out!”, explained the caterpillar.
"Why you want to make my phlegm to come out?", questioned by the girl.
"Because only when your phlegm get out of your body, then only the bed gems in your body will die and then only you can recover!”, said the caterpillar.
“Huh? Bad gems? In my body?”, the girl was filling shocked!
“Yes! We fight very hard with them to help you recover! But you know, when we were trying very hard to push your phlegm out, you swallow them back. Bad gems love the phlegm and it make the bad gems getting more powerful!”
“Is it? I never know this!”, the girl said with filling sorry.
“Yes! Look at me! I broke my thousand legs, and injured everywhere, That’s why I am being spit out from your body too.”
“I… I… am so sorry about this. How can I help you?”, the girl said sadly.
“No, You can’t help me anymore, cause I am going to die soon.”
“What?! I… I didn’t mean to do that…”, the girl was feeling regretful.
“Don’t worry, they are many of my friends still inside your body, fighting very hard with the bad gems, but they are defeating. You got to help them.”
"Me? How? How can I help?", the girl asked with puzzled.
"Whenever you want to cough, just keep coughing and force the phlegm to come out. And remember to spit it out. That will make the bad gems become weaken as they lost their power." said the caterpillar.
"That’s all?", the girl was feeling achievable.
"And please don’t send in more gems to your body, as it will be too many for us to fight."
"I never send in any bad gems!" the girl denied.
"Yes, you are. Whenever you pick you finger in your nose or mouth, you fingers are fills with gems, You can’t see them. They are very very small yet very powerful. Promise?"
"I… I… Ok, I will never do that. That’s all I need to do?" said the girl.
"Ah... Please drink warm water, whenever you feel itchy throat. That means we need help. Warm water helps us to weaken bad gems’ power. " reminded the caterpillar.
"So I cannot drink cold water? " asked the girl.
"Yes. And cool water make them stronger." answered the caterpillar.
"And the very last but important thing to do is… rinse your … nose. Salt water will kill them. And... don’t.... eat…. Sweet thing" the caterpillar was getting weaker.
"What? what happen to you?" urged the girl.
"I am dying soon…. Remember sweet thing make them stronger too."
"Hey… don’t die… I will listen to you. I will wash my nose and stop eat sweet candy! Please don’t die."
From that day onward, the little girl follows everything the caterpillar said. She recover very fast and she can go for swimming again.
你家有小朋友爱挖鼻屎,爱把手指放进嘴里,爱喝冷水,爱吃糖的, 不爱把咳嗽出来的痰吐掉的。。。可以看看这样有帮助吗?
近来,大小宝都咳嗽不停。为鼓励他们把痰吐出来,《毛毛虫》就这样诞生了。
图片来源:网路




Read More
      edit

Monday, June 27, 2016

Published Monday, June 27, 2016 by with 0 comment

《漫不经心》

今晚,大小宝怀念睡前听故事。
不停不停的要求bed time story.
蓝女人说了一个不好听的睡前故事:
Long long time ago, there was a poor farmer. He had an old wife.
On the first day, the farmer went to the farm and he supposed to plant some paddy. But he saw a bird, and he thought the bird was really nice, and he decided to do bird watching.
At the end of the day, he went home without doing any planting. His wife told him that the rice was running out of stock and he really have to work harder. The farmer promised to work hard in the farm on the next day.
On the second day, the farmer was set to go for work. His wife reminded him to work hard.
He reached the farm and prepared to work. Here came a frog.
Farmer: Oh, I wonder where this frog is coming from?
And the farmer decided to find out where the frog family is. By the time the farmer came back, it was already late evening. The farmer decided to return home.
On the third day, the old wife reminded him again: rice is going to finish soon. The farmer was so determined to be hardworking today.
But, as he reached the farm. he saw a crow on the scarecrow. It was so irritating that the farmer couldn't work. The farmer decided to shoo away the crow. By the time he return to work, it was late evening again.
He walked home slowly....
蓝女人讲了三天,大小宝都听得挺开心的。然后蓝女人问:
Why the farmer walk so slow?
大宝说: Because he is hungry.
小宝说: Because he never do work
蓝女人问:Why never do work and need to walk so slow?
小宝说: Because later old wife not happy.
蓝女人继续说:
When he reached home, his wife got to know that there was no work for the day, and got very mad with the farmer. She told the farmer, "If tomorrow you never work, you will lost everything."
So, on the next day, the farmer went to work again. This time, he really decided to work. But, when he was about to start work, here came a little duckling, "Quack! quack!"
Farmer: Oh! it is so cute! What shall I do?
大小宝喊道:move on! do work! 小朋友多紧张!
Farmer, “Oh! It is so cute! What shall I do?”
大小宝松了一口气。
Here came the second duck, "Quack! Quack!"
大小宝喊道: Oh no~~~!
The ducklings were yellow, waggling, and quacking...
Farmer, “What shall I do? They are so cute and lovely!”
大小宝提高声量:Move on! Do work! 气氛越来越紧张!
Farmer, “Oh!I got to work!”
大小宝又松了一口气。
Here came the third duckling, "Quack! Quack!"
大小宝又紧张了!
Farmer, “Oh no, they lost their mother! What should I do? I think I better help them find their mother!”
小宝不停的叫: No! No! No!
大宝好矛盾哦!一时喊No, 又有点不知所措。
Farmer, “I think, I better help the poor ducklings...”
大小宝好泄气哦!唉声叹气!
蓝女人继续说:
By the time the farmer returned, it was dark again, the farmer walk home with feeling of scared.... why?
小宝说: Because he never do work
大宝说: Because he did not do his work and scared to be scolded.
蓝女人说: Jie, does it sound familiar to you?
大宝说: Yes! Yes!
蓝女人说: Why?
大宝不回答。蓝女人再问:Why is it so familiar to you?
大宝匆匆的说:Because the farmer is just like me! 语气带尴尬!
蓝女人又继续说:
Yeah, both of you are right. He felt scared to be scolded by his old wife. But when he reach home... what happen?
小宝说: He lost everything!
蓝女人又继续说:
No! He found out that nothing missing, but the wife had died.
大小宝都很安静。蓝女人看不到他们的表情,可是应该可以感觉得到他们预想不到结局是这样的。停了一会儿,蓝女人继续:
The old wife died due to hungry for many days. She saved all the food for the farmer so that the farmer has energy to work.
大小宝好泄气! 开始抗议!
小宝说: No! I want another story!
大宝说: I want a happy or funny one! not like this. I don't like this story!
蓝女人: No! No more story!
大宝说: I don't like this story! This is very bad!
蓝女人: Tell me what is the moral of story?
小宝说: Must do work!
大宝说:The farmer should marry a second wife!
蓝女人差点晕倒: No! That is not the moral of it.
大宝:We must appreciate time. Time cannot come back.
蓝女人: Yes. But how to appreciate time?
大宝说:Do important thing first
小宝说: Must do finish first.
蓝女人: 对咯!要做重要的事情先。而且要专心啊!
大宝还是说: I don't like this story! This is very bad!
蓝女人: Jie, In this world, there are many bad things happened and once it happened, you can't go back and fix it! So you must remember and love this story. It remind you that you must do thing at the right time. 这个世界上就是有很多不美好的事情在发生。像这样的事,如果你不珍惜时间,发生了以后就没有办法从新来过的。
蓝女人心软了,继续说下去:
Now, the story continue like this:
A time fairy suddenly appeared. She said to the farmer, " You can return to four days back. But, with a condition, you cannot waste your time!"
The farmer agreed.
On the first day, the farmer went to the farm he saw a bird.
Farmer, “Oh! The bird is so beautiful! What shall I do?!”
大小宝气势高昂:Work! Move on!
Farmer, “But the bird is so beautiful!”
大小宝紧张得很:Go! Do work! Work first!
Farmer, "Em, I think I better plant my paddy."
大小宝松懈了下来
On the second day, the farmer saw the frog.
Farmer, "Oh, I wonder where this frog coming from?"
大小宝大喊:No! No! No! work! Move on!
Farmer, "Er Ok, I better work now!"
大小宝心情愉悦
On the third day, the farmer saw a crow on the scarecrow.
还没说完大小宝就几里哗啦:Cannot!! Work first ! Move on!
Farmer, "But the crow are so irritating."
大小宝:Don't bother! You should do your work!
Farmer, "Hmm... Ok. I better do my work"
On the forth day, the farmer saw three little poor duckling lost their mother
大小宝已经不停的喊:Cannot!! Work first! Move on!
Farmer, "but, they lost their mother, very pitiful! I think I must help them!"
大小宝使劲的喊:No~~~~!
Farmer, "Alright. Let me finish my work first, and i shall bring some vege home for dinner."
And since then, they lived happily ever after.
这是standard的结局对白。
为什么蓝女人狠心说个坏结局的故事呢?
也要感激大宝激发蓝女人的创意。
近来大宝对功课漫不经心。常常想把功课往明天推。老宝见功课量越来越多要他在学校等待家长接待的时候就开始做,结果大宝出示“王牌”, 老宝气炸的很,回来投诉蓝女人。
就这样,这个故事因此诞生。希望对大宝有效!
慢活  蓝女人's photo.

Read More
      edit